What Individualism Should Mean
“To me, individualism should mean something much more precise than ‘doing whatever I want.’ It means recognizing the individual human being as an independent, rational entity—with the right to think, choose, act, pursue happiness, and live for his or her own sake, while respecting the identical rights of others.”
That is very close to Ayn Rand's Objectivist definition. Individualism is not isolation or disregard for others. It begins with recognizing the individual as an independent bearer of rights.
When Independence Becomes Suspicious
I think the word has repeatedly been bent because it is easier to control people when independence can be made morally suspect. Calling individualism “selfishness,” “isolation,” or “antisocial behavior” allows someone to redefine independence as a character defect.
The payoff for those promoting collectivist thinking is enormous: if the individual feels guilty for pursuing his own judgment, he becomes easier to organize, persuade, pressure, and govern as a member of a group.
Why It Went Unchallenged
Why didn't intelligent people catch it? Because the packaging is subtle. “Community,” “social responsibility,” “the common good,” and “caring about others” are emotionally attractive ideas.
The linguistic trick is to move from “individuals should respect one another's rights” to “the group may override the individual for the group's purposes” without explicitly announcing the change.
The Individual Gets Replaced
I see a dangerous trend if this continues: we may increasingly judge people by the group to which they belong rather than by their own choices, character, and actions. Individual identity gets replaced by collective identity; independent thought becomes suspicious; dissent becomes disloyalty.
For me, preserving the meaning of individualism is therefore not about celebrating isolation. It is about preserving the moral status of the individual human mind.